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by Abigail Van Buren

State Traffic Laws May Vary, but Student Safety Is the Goal

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I recently attended a couples wedding shower for my boss's daughter and her fiance. They sent us a lovely thank-you note, but it was for the wrong gift. Should I say something? I don't want to embarrass anybody. -- WONDERING IN LOUISIANA

DEAR WONDERING: Call your boss's daughter and gently explain what happened. It's possible the gift cards got mixed up. It's nothing to be embarrassed about, and she needs to know.