DEAR ABBY: For the past five years, I have been concentrating on school in an effort to support my 5-year-old son who lives with his mother. We never married; I am gay. I see my son a couple of times a month.
I recently quit my job because it was too much to handle with school. I want to spend quality time with my son -- something I never had with my own father -- but I don't have much money and I don't remember what 5-year-old boys like to do.
This is my last chance to be a good father. Abby, can you think of some activities my son would enjoy? -- WANTS TO BE A GOOD DAD, RALEIGH, N.C.
DEAR DAD: I applaud you for wanting to participate in your son's life. The child will enjoy just spending time with you and knowing you. Listen to what he has to say and take an interest in the things he likes.
Some excursions the two of you could enjoy together might include an age-appropriate movie, a sporting event, a trip to the zoo, going to get an ice cream cone, camping out and/or hiking, or a visit to a park playground. It doesn't have to be fancy or expensive. A picnic and game of catch are fun.
Reading to your son is another activity that he would like. Go to the library and ask the librarian to recommend books you and your son can enjoy together.
Readers: Any other ideas?