DEAR ABBY: "Vicki," my best friend for 30 years, is under a doctor's care. The trouble is, she's been lying to him about taking anti-depressants and painkillers while still consuming large amounts of alcohol. For the past six months, Vicki has pushed away all those who love her.
Abby, Vicki and I are treated by the same doctor. I was wondering if it would be breaking a trust to tell him what Vicki is doing. I think he should know. What do you think? -- WORRIED FRIEND IN MISSISSIPPI
DEAR WORRIED FRIEND: By all means tell your doctor about your concerns. Through some "routine" questions, the doctor will have the opportunity to intervene without revealing who tipped him off. Please don't wait. It could save your friend's life, because alcohol and prescription drugs can be a lethal combination.