DEAR ABBY: I am confused and have no one to talk to. There's this guy I like who asked me out, but I told him no. Now I'm having second thoughts because we aren't as different as I thought we were.
I don't want anything too serious right now, and he keeps saying things like, "I want to have sex with you." He tells me that we would be great together and goes on and on about how "hot" I am.
What should I do, Abby? -- BUNDLE OF CONFUSION IN PORTLAND
DEAR BUNDLE: Accept the fact that you and this young man ARE different. You want a relationship that isn't serious. He wants sex -- and sex is VERY serious.
Keep this guy at arm's length and don't let him talk you into anything.
P.S. The next time he tells you how "hot" you are, suggest he take a cold shower.