DEAR ABBY: I love your "no gifts" message for invitations: "Your friendship is a treasured gift, and we respectfully request no other." I use it a lot.
Now I need a phrase or short note that will allow my 78-year-old mother to give treasured heirlooms to the person of her choice.
I would have loved to receive the banana pudding bowl that belonged to my dear late aunt. It elicited many cherished memories. It was faded and chipped, and I'm sure it was at some point thrown away.
Abby, you have a way with words, so I'm looking forward to your response. Thanks! -- LORI RAMPEY, PIEDMONT, S.C.
DEAR LORI: How's this: "This ( ) has been in my family for many years and is a treasured heirloom. May it bring as much enjoyment to you as it has to me and our family. With love, ..."