DEAR ABBY: My sister gave birth to her first child a few months ago. He was a beautiful baby, called home by God on the day he was born. My sister is an incredibly strong person, but I know she's hurting more than she lets on.
With Mother's Day approaching, I am wondering if it would be appropriate to give her a Mother's Day card. I don't want to make her sadder than she already is, but I also don't want her to think I've forgotten or don't care. I'm not sure what I should do. -- GRIEVING AUNT IN NEW YORK
DEAR GRIEVING: I am very sorry you lost your precious nephew. My heart goes out to you and his dear mother.
Yes, by all means, acknowledge your sister's loss -- but not with a traditional Happy Mother's Day card. Select a beautiful blank card and write your own personal message of remembrance.