DEAR ABBY: I am a gentleman in my late 70s who prefers wearing athletic shoes because I find them comfortable. I wear them not only around the house, but when shopping, dining out, going to the movies, etc.
For some reason, wearing white socks with them causes my feet and ankles to itch (perhaps due to an allergy). Therefore, I wear colored socks -- black, blue, brown -- you get the picture.
My problem: My children, who are all married with kids of their own, are forever telling me I look like a "dork"! They say that colored socks should never be worn with athletic shoes. Please don't advise me to switch to leather shoes, as they are hard on my feet.
How can I make my children understand that I am not trying to be a misfit, but only trying to be comfortable in my "golden years"? -- NO SLAVE TO FASHION IN SAN MARCOS
DEAR NO SLAVE: My "fashion experts" tell me that if people can see your socks, your trousers may be too short. However, if that's not your problem, consider that athletic shoes come in a variety of color combinations, and you can always coordinate your shoes and socks to match your outfit.
P.S. Consult a podiatrist about foot powder to relieve what's itching you.