DEAR ABBY: My mother has been widowed for five years. Less than a year ago, her cousin "Betty" passed away. Mom has become close to Betty's husband, "Boyd." She is trying to keep her feelings a secret, but it is becoming apparent that she is more involved with him than she wants to let on.
I am uncomfortable with the relationship because she and Betty were so close when they were growing up. They were like sisters.
Mom said she didn't want to tell me how close she was to Boyd, because she knew I would not approve of the relationship. I don't. She insists that although it is sad when someone passes on, life goes on.
Abby, am I nuts? How should I feel about this situation? -- UNCOMFORTABLE DAUGHTER
DEAR DAUGHTER: Your mother is absolutely right. You should be happy for her and her new love. They are hurting no one. Please don't rain on their parade any further.