DEAR ABBY: My daughter is planning a wedding in July. She would like to use silver and burgundy as her colors. Her soon-to-be mother-in-law said silver is used for second marriages. Is this true? -- NEEDS YOUR HELP IN UTAH
DEAR NEEDS: If that's true, it's the first time I've heard of it. Second-time brides often wear pastel colors -- or white with color in the trim of the garment or their accessories. If your daughter wants to use silver and burgundy for her wedding, the combination sounds fine to me.