DEAR ABBY: I pity people who feel they must violate their children's trust in order to learn more about their lives. I hope parents understand that once your children learn you do not trust them, they in turn will not trust YOU -– and you'll never be able to rebuild what has been so carelessly destroyed.
Some people may call it "concern," but I call it lack of parenting skills. –- REBECCA (AGE 14) IN WASHINGTON