DEAR ABBY: Some of my friends tend to be a bit immature at times, about both serious and minor situations. I try to give good information if they don't know what to do, or if they're considering something foolish to get through their crisis.
Is there a certain approach or a time that is best to give out my information so that they take it as seriously as I would take it? -- KELLY IN PORT WASHINGTON, N.Y.
DEAR KELLY: Yes. The most unwelcome advice is that which is unasked for, so volunteer your information only when asked. The exception would be a life-threatening situation.