DEAR ABBY: The letter from "Living a Nightmare" could have been written by me almost eight years ago. I didn't think I could ever escape, but I did.
When I could stand it no longer, I had my husband put in jail for his abuse. Shortly thereafter, I was notified by his parents that he was being released on bail. They were having a party and wanted me to come. I knew what that meant, so I quickly packed my bags and left.
I went to the nearest shelter for abused women, where arrangements were made for me to transfer to another shelter -- in another state. In order to survive, I had to change my name and get a new Social Security number. It was hard, but living is important to me.
I am now happily married and live an abuse-free life. I wish "Living a Nightmare" all the luck in the world and my prayers are with her.
Abby, for obvious reasons, please do not print my name. Sign me ... THE GIRL WHO GOT AWAY
DEAR GIRL: Congratulations on ending the abuse and redefining your life. I'm printing your letter as a beacon of hope to other victims of abuse, to let them know that although it may be difficult, a happy outcome is possible.