DEAR ABBY: In regard to the family whose parents failed to keep in touch on a road trip, and therefore couldn't be located when a grandparent died, you advised, "The best policy is to leave a detailed itinerary with friends or family or ... make a point of checking in regularly."
I would like to add another suggestion: Before going on the road, invest in a long-distance pager. The cost is reasonable and can even include a toll-free pager number. Give the number to a couple of trusted friends or family members.
Back this up with voicemail service on your home phone and check your messages daily. If you call during off-peak hours, the cost will be minimal.
That's what I did, and it certainly gave me peace of mind. -- ELLEN K. HOWE, WEST COVINA, CALIF.
DEAR ELLEN: An excellent idea. Thanks for sharing it.