DEAR ABBY: Not too long ago, a friend of mine lost his eyesight due to complications from diabetes. He is only 29.
Fortunately, I was given the gift of sharing his first outing since he became blind. He was so excited! After almost sitting on a stranger's lap on the bus, he told me how helpful it would be if the public would just do a few things to enable the blind to function without additional problems when they go out.
These are only a few tips on ways we can help people who are sightless:
1. When you see someone who is blind, start talking. This will let him know WHERE you are. (That way, the person won't sit on your lap or trip over your feet.)
2. Ask if there is anything you can do. You might be able to direct them.
3. Let them take your elbow so that you can lead them to a specific area, especially when crossing the street.
4. Converse with them -- you'll find they have much to say.
Many of us are fearful that we will do the wrong thing, so we don't do anything. I know there must be other helpful tips. If your readers can add to this list, it will be very much appreciated. -- ANDREA RYNER, SAN MATEO, CALIF.
DEAR ANDREA: You've written a helpful letter. I hope readers who have contact with a person who is sightless will take your suggestions to heart.