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by Abigail Van Buren

Mother Struggles to Tell Kids That Dad's 'Trip' Was to Jail

DEAR ABBY: My daughter is dating a 28-year-old man who was picked up for indecent exposure about two weeks ago. This is the second time, according to police. My daughter has two young children, and I'm afraid she may leave them alone with him.

Abby, is he a danger to the children? Please answer soon. He doesn't have a court date as yet. -- GRANDMOTHER IN UTICA, MICH.

DEAR GRANDMOTHER: Let me put it this way: If there is any question in your mind or your daughter's -- the children should NOT be left alone with this man.