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by Abigail Van Buren

Dad Does Not Take Lightly Marriage to a Heavyweight

DEAR READERS: Here's a thought-provoking quote from the late -- and great -- author, John Steinbeck: "We give the president more work than a man can do, more responsibility than a man should take, more pressure than a man can bear. We abuse him often, and rarely praise him. We wear him out, use him up, eat him up. And with all this, Americans have a love for the president that goes beyond party loyalty or nationality; he is ours, and we exercise the right to destroy him."