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by Abigail Van Buren

Unhappy Relationship May Be Truth Behind the Lies

DEAR ABBY: I would like to reply to "Real Adoptive Parents" who need an answer to the question, "Are your children REAL brother and sister?"

As the mother of two adopted Korean children, I am asked that question frequently, and my stock reply is: "They are now!" -- A "REAL" MOM