by Abigail Van Buren

Dear Abby in Advice August 10, 2020

Cellphone Records Suggest Wife's Affair May Not Be Over

DEAR ABBY: I found out a year ago that my wife of eight years had an affair for three years with my best friend. Two months ago I realized she is still contacting him. I found out because I went th... continue

Dear Abby in Advice August 09, 2020

Both Fiancee and Ring Have Disappeared From Man's Life

DEAR ABBY: Five months ago, after eight years, my fiancee terminated our relationship. I still have very strong feelings for her, although she ghosted me and won't communicate with me. We agreed fr... continue

Dear Abby in Advice August 08, 2020

Upcoming Move Prompts Best Friend To Reveal True Feelings

DEAR ABBY: I have been in love with my best friend for two years. We met at a summer camp where we were both working, and we hated each other in the beginning. During the process of working togethe... continue

Dear Abby in Advice August 07, 2020

Guilt Remains 40 Years After Job Reference Was Withheld

DEAR ABBY: About 40 years ago, I did someone an injustice, and I have felt guilty ever since. I worked for a consulting firm in Washington, D.C., that fired an accounting clerk who was in my small ... continue