by Abigail Van Buren

Dear Abby in Advice September 23, 2020

Transgender Playmate Poses a Challenge to Girl's Grandma

DEAR ABBY: My 7-year-old granddaughter, "Leyla," has a playmate who is a transgender girl. My fear is that she may find out the truth and feel betrayed by her playmate as well as me. Should I expla... continue

Dear Abby in Advice September 22, 2020

A Pillar of the Community Is Less Admired at Home

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 14 years to a man a lot of people in our town think has no flaws. He helps a lot of people, and he is also a pastor, but he ignores me and takes me for granted, p... continue

Dear Abby in Advice September 21, 2020

Friend Playing Cupid Neglects To Mention Man's Drug Habit

DEAR ABBY: My hairdresser, former neighbor and friend recommended her unemployed brother to do some minor repairs to my home. He and his sister were trying to push me into a relationship. I am a wi... continue

Dear Abby in Advice September 20, 2020

Woman Planning Future May Have Competition for Widower

DEAR ABBY: A friend's wife died six months ago after a 10-year battle with cancer. He was her faithful caretaker, as she was mostly homebound and bedridden. He told me previously that he has had a ... continue