DEAR SOMEONE ELSE’S MOM: I can’t help noticing that my son-in-law doesn’t always wear his wedding band. My daughter even got him a couple of those rubber ones for him to wear at work (he’s a county building inspector), but when he comes to dinner right from work, or to church on Sundays, I don’t see him wearing any ring at all.
Do you agree with my husband that I should just let it be? I’ve never yet stuck my nose in our daughter and son-in-law’s business. --- WHERE’S THE RING?
DEAR WHERE’S THE RING?: Unless you have concerns for your daughter’s welfare, it’s most likely best to maintain your no interference policy. I can think of a number of perfectly innocent reasons your son-in-law doesn’t wear his ring, and if it isn’t an issue for his wife, it shouldn’t be one for you.