Ask Dr. Nerdlove by Harris O'Malley

Ask Dr. Nerdlove in Advice April 09, 2021

How Do I Become More Attractive To Women?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: For the last month and a half or so, I went on some dates with a girl (who we’ll call L, for the purposes of this letter) who I met through Bumble. I really liked her, as we have... continue

Ask Dr. Nerdlove in Advice April 08, 2021

Why Don’t I Want To Sleep With My Girlfriend?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a man in my early thirties. Growing up throughout my adolescence and, until I was around 25, I didn’t had any kind of sexual or even a casual relationship with any woman. I d... continue

Ask Dr. Nerdlove in Advice April 07, 2021

How Do I Become Someone Women Feel Safe Rejecting?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: This might seem like a weird question, but it is something i’ve been thinking about. I apologize if my phrasing is awkward, English isn’t my first language. I consider myself a f... continue

Ask Dr. Nerdlove in Advice April 06, 2021

How Can I Avoid Falling In Love With My Friend?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: This letter was spurred by your recent column about letting folks down gently. My question is related but separate: how do I keep a relationship platonic when the romantic intere... continue