DEAR ABBY: Our 2-year-old granddaughter is using "dirty words" during her visits with us. We have tried ignoring her, and also popping her on the bottom while saying "no." Her mother uses this language, so this situation is very confusing for our granddaughter. Please help. -- CONFUSED IN THE SOUTH
DEAR CONFUSED: Someone needs to explain to the mother that the "dirty words" her daughter is being taught are normal are sure to create problems for her when she's old enough for school. Perhaps it will be the wakeup call she needs to clean up her vocabulary.
However, if that isn't effective, then it's up to you to teach your granddaughter that dirty words cannot be used in your home. Reward her when she remembers, remind her when she forgets and institute penalties if it persists. That's how kids learn, and you will be doing her a favor if you start early.