DEAR ABBY: How do I fight feelings of jealousy? I don't want to sulk over what other people have and I don't. I just want to live my life being unaffected by other people's riches, fertility and happiness. Any tips would be appreciated. -- JEALOUS IN COLORADO
DEAR JEALOUS: NOBODY has everything or a life that's completely problem-free. A way to minimize jealousy would be to be grateful for the positive things you DO have going for you. Quietly list them in your mind before going to sleep at night, and again in the morning before getting out of bed. If you do, it will set the tone for your day and help you to keep the green-eyed monster at bay.